It’s crucial to teach your kids how to handle physical affection in a mature, respectful manner. Every child should learn the value of having personal boundaries and that they are in control of who touches them and how. The ability to negotiate physical affection within the framework of their faith is something that parents can teach their children.
The Bible gives us many instructions on how to treat people with decency and love as well as how to uphold sound limits. One way parents can show their children these values is by establishing guidelines around physical contact. Tell them that they are under no need to make physical touch with anyone they don’t want to, not even close family members. Teach your children that it’s acceptable to refuse physical contact, even if doing so could make the other person feel disappointed, and that one should always respect another person’s feelings.
Instead of expecting hugs or other forms of physical contact from everyone present, teach children to say hello and goodbye politely when the family is together. Teach them how to employ social interaction best practices in church or other religious settings. Reiterate that loving words or actions, such as praises or smiles, frequently suffice in place of physical affection to make someone else happy.
If you have any worries that someone might be acting inappropriately around your child, talk to them calmly but firmly and make sure they understand why their behavior was wrong. Let your child know you’re there for support and direction at every step of the journey and encourage them not to be scared to speak out for themselves against people who make them feel uncomfortable or dangerous.
We may equip our kids with lifelong skills by modeling appropriate physical behavior and setting clear expectations for them. Children can learn what it looks like to honor God while respecting themselves in all types of relationships – including those connected to physical touch – by receiving prayerful instruction from the Bible and parental examples of love and kindness.