Every Sunday, as I stand on the podium, I scan the familiar faces in our humble meeting room. Some radiate hope, dedication, and eagerness as they hungrily soak in the Word. Their passion serves as a salve for my soul. But then there are others, their faces etched with worry, sorrow, and even desolation. Perhaps, dear reader, you can relate.
There are times when Sunday sermons may seem more of a load to carry than a moment of spiritual nourishment. If you’ve ever found yourself feeling this way, let’s explore five possible reasons why churchgoing might be more burdensome than blessed and ways to address these challenges.
- It’s about the phase of your journey: The young, unattached individual often experiences churchgoing differently than the parent managing a household of young ones. Life’s peaks and valleys can deeply influence our experience of church. Challenges could range from a tough breakup to work stress or even discord within the church community itself. If you’re finding it hard to connect with your faith community, it could be a reflection of your broader struggles in life.
Remember, dear one, each season of life ebbs and flows (Song 2:11). Hang on; this, too, shall pass.
- It’s about personal preferences: Perhaps your dissatisfaction stems from a misplaced focus. When we come to church, we should come as servants, eager to learn and grow. However, sometimes we can become too caught up in minor details. Maybe the coffee isn’t to your liking, the hymns aren’t your favorites, or the children’s teachings differ from your preferred curriculum.
Self-reflection is key: Are the teachings at your church biblically grounded and meaningful? Is the leadership faithful to the Word? If so, it might be your priorities that need adjusting. By realigning your focus with God’s principles, you may rediscover the joy of worship.
- Your church is facing difficulties: If the answer to the above questions is no, then perhaps your church is going through a troubled phase. This could understandably be causing your Sunday struggles. It’s essential to discern whether these are signs from God to either find a new church home or stand firm and strive for healing within your current spiritual family. Either way, it’s vital to commit to seeking God’s grace every Sunday, despite the struggles (Ps. 34:8).
- You’re trapped in recurring sin: Could your sin be forming a wall between you and the joy of worship? Sin, be it towards your spouse, co-workers, or even yourself, can create a disconnect from God. But remember, the road to Sunday joy is always open. Seek forgiveness and mercy from Christ, and He will cleanse and renew your spirit (Ps. 51:12).
- You may not truly know Jesus: Could it be that your discomfort in church stems from a lack of a genuine relationship with Christ? The good news is, Christ loves you deeply, and His arms are always open. He longs for you to experience His joy and love (Ezek. 18:32; John 17:3; Zeph. 3:17; Matt. 25:23).
Yes, Sunday services can sometimes be a challenging spiritual journey. But as your love for Christ blossoms, so too will your affection for His church (Eph. 5:25–27), turning the obligation into an evergreen source of joy (Rev. 19:6–9).