A few sunrises ago, a young mother, eager to embrace the journey of parenthood, approached me. We would often share conversations over cups of coffee at our workplace. She yearned for guidance, not just from any book or seminar but from someone who had walked the path. Our meet-ups evolved from casual chats to focused sessions where prayers intertwined with counsel.
This is mentoring – guiding someone through a specific aspect of life, be it motherhood, relationships, or even hobbies. It’s valuable, personalized, and can be deeply fulfilling. Yet, while mentoring is rich in life lessons and practical advice, it carries a different tune from discipling.
Later that year, a fresh college graduate, her heart ignited with spiritual passion, expressed her desire to be “discipled” by me. Over a heart-to-heart at my home, we delved into her spiritual aspirations. And as the talk unfolded, it was clear she yearned for a deeper spiritual companionship, a bond beyond mere mentoring.
Both mentoring and discipling paint the canvas of guidance. But where mentoring often serves practical and life-centered needs, discipling dances to a heavenly rhythm, echoing God’s call.
Here’s the essence:
1. Divine Design: Discipling is birthed from a heavenly decree. Remember Christ’s poignant words? “Go and make disciples” (Matthew 28:19). This isn’t just a mere suggestion. It’s an invitation to partake in God’s transformative blueprint. We don’t simply guide; we co-labor with Him.
2. God, the Gardener: Discipling recognizes that while we might sow and water, it’s God who nurtures growth. Like a gardener tending to plants, we invest in what the Holy Spirit is cultivating in a soul. And in this garden, the Word of God is our most vital tool.
3. A Journey with Purpose: The road of discipling is paved with trust, intention, and divine purpose. It reminds me of a profound saying: “Build a bridge of trust strong enough to bear the weight of truth.” This path isn’t just about sharing scripture but fostering a relationship where both the discipler and the disciple grow closer to God’s heart.
Just like feeding a child, discipling has its phases – from the gentle milk of foundational teachings to the hearty meat of deeper revelations. The aim? To nourish souls until they’re ready to guide others on the same journey (2 Timothy 2:2).
So, when the next soul reaches out, yearning for guidance, take a pause. Reflect on the nature of the bond they seek. Are they looking for a mentor or a spiritual companion in discipleship? Recognizing the difference not only sharpens our role but also amplifies the impact we can make in their lives, all under God’s watchful and loving gaze.