Ah, the ceaseless scrolling through Facebook, where you “heart” a wedding photo one minute and “thumbs-up” a newborn’s picture the next. Sounds familiar, right? But when was the last time you paused and pondered the depth of these digital friendships? Are these real connections, or just pixels portraying people you scarcely know? More importantly, are you content merely knowing them or do you wish to be genuinely known by them?
Fewer Friends, Christ-Centered Friendships
Let’s consider for a moment the friendships Jesus maintained during His time on earth. He was known and adored by crowds, yes, but intimately, He was only known by a small circle—twelve disciples. With this close-knit group, He broke bread, discussed profound truths, and served communities. The Son of God modeled the beauty of limited but deep friendships.
So, why do we think we can maintain meaningful connections with hundreds of “friends” on social media? The reality is, that we can’t. Just as Jesus prioritized depth over breadth, we should consider doing the same.
Riskier But Richer Friendships
This brings us to a vulnerable place—a place where we let our guard down. It’s easier to keep things light and breezy, isn’t it? Our contemporary culture often prizes self-sufficiency and individualism. We might desire relationships, but only if they’re neat and uncomplicated. However, that’s not what we’re designed for.
We’re created for connections that require us to be exposed, authentic, and interdependent. This involves risks, yes, but also rewards. We need people for life’s highs and lows—people who will not only cheer us on when we succeed but also catch us when we stumble.
Depth Over Pixels
Being truly known by someone requires daring honesty. The deeper you let someone into your life, the more they see your flaws and imperfections. This often scares us and could be a significant reason friendships or even romantic relationships crumble. But isn’t the risk worth taking for a relationship that goes beyond the superficial?
The feeling of being genuinely known—of walking into a coffee shop where the barista already knows your order—is deeply comforting. We’re wired for such meaningful connections by a loving Creator who seeks an authentic relationship with us. If He, the Author of all life, desires such depth, shouldn’t we seek the same with one another?
Friendships That Truly Value You
The joy of being truly known is irreplaceable and validates our innermost desire for authenticity. It’s those friendships where you are genuinely known that will nourish your soul and bring long-lasting joy. So, why not take a cue from the Gospels? Let’s strive for friendships that are genuine, that uplift us in good times and bad, and where the beauty of being known is cherished.
In a world continually seduced by the allure of social media, let’s be counter-cultural. Turn off the screens and dive into real conversations, be present, and genuinely invest in each other’s lives. Choose fewer but richer friendships, and in doing so, enrich your life and come closer to the kind of relationships we were divinely designed for.