The Slow Growth and Quick Departure of Children

In today's fast-paced society, parents often feel pressured to accelerate their children's growth and development. However, the natural process of maturation cannot be rushed. As Sam Crabtree notes, "We cannot microwave their progress; fruit is produced slowly, almost invisibly."

The Biblical Perspective on Time and Growth

The Apostle Paul advises believers to "look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time, because the days are evil" (Ephesians 5:15–16). This counsel encourages parents to be intentional with their time, focusing on what truly matters in their children's spiritual and moral development.

The Danger of Hurry in Parenting

A hurried lifestyle can hinder both personal spiritual growth and the discipleship of children. Crabtree warns, "A sense of frazzled urgency is a great enemy of spiritual growth in us, and in the children we disciple."

Practical Steps for Unhurried Parenting

1. Define Your Aim: Focus on nurturing Christ-like character in your children. As Paul expressed his desire for the Galatians, labor "until Christ is formed in you" (Galatians 4:19).

2. Schedule Intentional Time: Allocate unhurried periods for meaningful interactions with your children. This might include reading scripture together, engaging in heartfelt conversations, or participating in shared activities.

3. Embrace Proximity: Spend quality time in close physical presence with your children. Simple acts like sitting together, sharing meals, or bedtime talks can strengthen your bond.

4. Prioritize Wisely: Allow essential family moments to take precedence over less important tasks. For instance, choose to play catch with your child instead of attending to non-urgent chores.

Conclusion

While children grow slowly, their departure often feels sudden. By embracing a deliberate and unhurried approach to parenting, we can make the most of the fleeting time we have with them, fostering deep spiritual and emotional connections that will last a lifetime.

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