Finding God in the Asking Questions

The Courage to Question

We often hear sermons and read books that offer easy answers, neatly packaged solutions to life's complex problems. But what happens when those answers don't quite fit? What happens when doubt creeps in, when the carefully constructed edifice of our faith feels shaky? It's in these moments of questioning that we truly discover the strength and resilience of our spiritual foundation. It takes courage to admit we don't have all the answers, to wrestle with uncertainty, and to seek a deeper, more authentic connection with God. As the Psalmist cried out in Psalm 22:1, 'My God, my God, why have you forsaken me? Why are you so far from saving me, so far from my cries of anguish?' This raw honesty is not a sign of weakness, but a testament to the depth of the psalmist's relationship with God, a relationship strong enough to withstand even the most profound doubts.

Too often, we are taught to suppress our questions, to fear that doubting will somehow diminish our faith. But the Bible is full of examples of people who dared to question God, from Job's relentless pursuit of justice to Habakkuk's desperate plea for understanding in the face of injustice. These individuals weren't condemned for their doubts; instead, their questioning led them to a deeper understanding of God's character and purpose. Remember Thomas, the disciple who doubted Jesus' resurrection until he saw the wounds with his own eyes? Jesus didn't rebuke him for his skepticism, but offered him the proof he needed to believe (John 20:24-29). This shows us that God is not afraid of our questions; He welcomes them as an invitation to draw closer.

"Sometimes you don’t know what you believe until you hear yourself say it out loud."

This simple yet profound statement reminds us that the process of articulating our beliefs, even if they are laced with doubt, can be incredibly clarifying. Talking through our questions with trusted friends, mentors, or spiritual advisors can help us unpack our assumptions, identify areas where our understanding is incomplete, and ultimately arrive at a more solid foundation of faith. Proverbs 27:17 says, 'As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.' We need each other to grow, to challenge our perspectives, and to help us navigate the complexities of faith.

The Gift of Discomfort

Spiritual growth rarely happens in our comfort zones. It's in the moments of discomfort, when we are forced to confront our doubts and uncertainties, that we truly stretch and expand our understanding of God. Think of the Israelites wandering in the wilderness for forty years. It was a time of hardship and testing, but it was also a time of profound spiritual formation. They learned to rely on God's provision, to trust in His guidance, and to develop a deeper sense of community. Similarly, our own periods of doubt and questioning can be opportunities for growth, if we allow them to be. As James 1:2-4 encourages us, 'Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.'

Embrace the discomfort of not knowing all the answers. Instead of running from your doubts, lean into them. Ask yourself: What am I really struggling with? What assumptions am I making? What resources can I turn to for help? Prayerfully consider Scripture, engage in thoughtful conversations, and be open to the possibility that God may be challenging you to see things from a new perspective. Remember, God is not threatened by your questions; He is inviting you into a deeper relationship with Him. He wants you to wrestle with the hard things, to grapple with the mysteries of faith, and to emerge stronger and more resilient on the other side. As 1 Peter 5:10 promises, 'And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.'

Finding God in the Questions

So, how do we find God in the midst of our questions? First, we must approach our doubts with humility and honesty. Acknowledge that you don't have all the answers and be willing to learn. Second, immerse yourself in Scripture. The Bible is not a textbook of easy answers, but a rich tapestry of stories, poems, and teachings that can provide guidance and comfort in times of uncertainty. Look for patterns, themes, and principles that resonate with your own experiences. Third, connect with other believers who can offer support and encouragement. Share your doubts with trusted friends, mentors, or spiritual advisors. Don't be afraid to ask for help. Fourth, practice prayer and meditation. Take time to quiet your mind and listen for God's still, small voice. Ask Him to guide you, to reveal His truth, and to give you the strength to persevere. Finally, remember that faith is a journey, not a destination. There will be times when you feel certain and times when you feel lost. But through it all, God is with you, guiding you, and shaping you into the person He created you to be.

"The questions don’t scare me. What scares me is settling."

This sentiment encapsulates the essence of a vibrant and growing faith. To settle for easy answers, to avoid the discomfort of questioning, is to stagnate in our spiritual development. It is in the relentless pursuit of truth, in the courageous exploration of our doubts, that we discover the depth and richness of God's love and grace. Settling for easy answers can lead to a superficial faith that crumbles under pressure. But embracing the questions, wrestling with the uncertainties, and seeking a deeper understanding of God's will can lead to a faith that is strong, resilient, and deeply rooted in truth. As Hebrews 11:1 says, 'Now faith is confidence in what we hope for and assurance about what we do not see.' It's not about having all the answers; it's about trusting in God's character and promises, even when we can't see the whole picture.

The Power of Honest Dialogue

One of the most powerful tools we have in navigating our faith journey is honest dialogue. This includes not only conversations with trusted friends and mentors but also an open and honest conversation with ourselves. Are we truly being honest about our doubts and fears? Are we willing to confront the uncomfortable truths that may be lurking beneath the surface? As Psalm 139:23-24 urges, 'Search me, God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.' This kind of self-reflection can be challenging, but it is essential for spiritual growth.

Furthermore, we need to create spaces where honest dialogue about faith is encouraged and welcomed. Churches and small groups should be safe places where people can express their doubts and uncertainties without fear of judgment or condemnation. Leaders should be willing to engage in difficult conversations and to create an environment where questioning is seen as a sign of intellectual and spiritual curiosity, rather than a threat to orthodoxy. Remember that even Jesus engaged in challenging conversations with his disciples, pushing them to think critically and to question their assumptions. It is through these kinds of dialogues that we grow in our understanding of God and His will for our lives.

A Faith That Endures

In conclusion, questioning is not the enemy of faith; it is often the catalyst for deeper understanding and spiritual growth. Embrace the discomfort of uncertainty, seek out honest dialogue, and trust that God is with you on your journey. Remember that faith is not about having all the answers; it's about trusting in God's character and promises, even when you can't see the whole picture. As you navigate the complexities of faith, may you find comfort in the words of Isaiah 41:10: 'So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.' With God's help, you can overcome your doubts and build a faith that endures.

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