Guiding Children Through Bullying and Persecution

When children are believers, they often face more persecution than their non-Christian peers. In today’s world, bullying has expanded beyond the playground to include bosses, co-workers, and even family members. For children, bullying can be especially tough, particularly when it's because of their faith. So, what can parents do to help their children endure such challenges?

Understanding Persecution

The Bible warns us that those who live a godly life will face persecution. As the Apostle Paul states, “Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Timothy 3:12). This can be especially true for young believers who might be targeted because of their faith. Some children may be teased or bullied for praying before meals or discussing God with their friends.

It is important for children to understand that persecution is part of the Christian journey. The Apostle Peter writes, “Do not be surprised at the fiery trial that has come upon you, as though something strange were happening to you” (1 Peter 4:12). This is a reminder that believers have faced persecution for thousands of years. By understanding this, children can realize they are not alone in their struggles and that they are part of a long tradition of faith and resilience.

Preparing for Persecution

Parents can help their children by preparing them for the reality of persecution. Instead of being caught off guard, children should expect challenges and know that it is a normal part of following Jesus. Parents can remind their children that Jesus Himself was persecuted, yet He responded with love and forgiveness.

Jesus taught, “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you” (Luke 6:27-28). This teaching encourages believers not to retaliate but to respond with kindness and love. While this can be difficult, it’s important for children to understand that showing love in the face of hatred is a powerful testimony of their faith.

Responding with Love and Faith

Jesus is the ultimate example of how to respond to persecution. Despite having more enemies than any man in history, He did not seek revenge or retaliate against those who persecuted Him. Instead, Jesus said, “To one who strikes you on the cheek, offer the other also” (Luke 6:29). This does not mean children should tolerate physical abuse or be a "punching bag." Instead, Jesus was referring to verbal insults and persecution.

Children can be taught to respond with love and patience, trusting that God will bring justice in His time. “Vengeance is mine, I will repay, says the Lord” (Romans 12:19). This assurance allows children to focus on showing kindness and love, even when it is difficult.

Teaching Forgiveness and Kindness

When children encounter hurtful words or actions, they can be encouraged not to take it personally. It may be Jesus and His message that others find threatening, rather than the children themselves. Parents can model the love of God by demonstrating how to react with kindness and forgiveness rather than anger.

The Bible encourages us, “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good” (Romans 12:21). By responding with love, children can “heap burning coals” on the heads of their persecutors, demonstrating that love is stronger than hate (Romans 12:20). Jesus exemplified this love by dying for us while we were still sinners, showing that true love transcends all offenses (Romans 5:6-10).

Living Out Love

Parents play a crucial role in teaching their children how to respond to bullying and persecution. By modeling Christ-like behavior and encouraging their children to love and forgive, parents can help them endure difficult situations. Jesus said, “A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another: just as I have loved you, you also are to love one another” (John 13:34).

By loving others, even those who persecute them, children can demonstrate that they are truly Jesus’ disciples. Love is a powerful force that cannot be easily dismissed or argued against. As parents, teaching children to respond with love and kindness will prepare them to face challenges with faith and strength, showing the world what it truly means to follow Christ.

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