What Solo Travel Taught Me About God

Being alone in a foreign place may be the most honest way to rediscover your identity and the quiet presence of God.

By the time I arrived in Florence, I was exhausted, thirsty, and navigating with the last flicker of my phone battery and a bruised peach in my bag. It was Day Four of my first solo trip a journey I’d framed as a personal and spiritual pilgrimage. But so far, it felt more like a string of near-misses and awkward moments than anything profound. Still, something shifted when I turned a quiet corner and caught sight of the Duomo. No music swelled, no flash of divine revelation. Just stillness. A breath. A soft inner quiet that wrapped around me like a whisper from God I’m here.

Solo travel teaches you things that books and sermons often can't. It strips away your distractions and routines, leaving you with nothing but your own thoughts, choices, and the uncomfortable freedom of being entirely responsible for yourself. And somewhere in that space, if you’re paying attention, something sacred begins to form.

Everyone should travel alone at least once. Not for the aesthetic photos or the thrill of the unknown, but because solitude reveals your real self the version not shaped by social expectations, church calendars, or even well-meaning community advice. According to a 2023 study by Statista, nearly 18% of global travelers now identify as solo explorers, many citing personal growth and self-discovery as primary motivators.

In solitude, your faith has room to stretch. It’s no longer just a group activity or Sunday tradition it becomes a lived experience. I didn’t plan to have a holy moment in a foreign grocery store while scanning oat milk labels, but there God was. Not in grandeur or thunder, just a gentle presence in aisle five, reminding me that He’s as near in the mundane as He is in the miraculous.

When you travel alone, you learn who you are under pressure. Without someone to translate menus or affirm your decisions, you’re forced to listen inwardly and upward. You figure out what actually brings you peace. You realize how much of your life has been orchestrated to meet others’ expectations. You learn that God’s voice often sounds clearest when there are no other voices to drown it out.

In one quiet afternoon in Lisbon, perched on a bench eating a less-than-great croissant, I felt God's presence more clearly than I had during some worship nights. There was no set list, no altar call. Just ordinary beauty, the sound of a city humming in another language, and the quiet reminder that I didn’t need to be “doing” anything to be fully seen and fully loved.

Solo travel doesn’t magically fix your life. But it does create a kind of sacred disruption. It breaks the cycle of autopilot living and invites you into intentionality. Research from Harvard’s Human Flourishing Program shows that periods of solitude are linked to increased clarity, emotional regulation, and even deeper spiritual awareness. When the noise falls away, the questions get louder but so does God's presence.

Eventually, you come home. But you're not the same. You don’t overexplain yourself as much. You’re more comfortable in your own skin. More selective about your yeses. You’ve tasted the stillness and it lingers.

So start small. Take a weekend drive with no set destination. Book a few nights in a nearby city. Bring a Bible, a journal, and less of a plan than you think you need. Let the boredom breathe. Let the silence speak. Let yourself be gently unraveled.

You don’t need a perfect itinerary to meet God. You just need a little time alone, an open heart, and the courage to believe that maybe just maybe you were never really lost to begin with.

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