Why Do Christians Judge Others?

As Christians, we’re familiar with Jesus' command, "Do not judge." Yet, many still engage in harsh criticism, creating a culture that drives people away from the church. Why do we often fall into judgment, even though our faith calls us to love and reconcile?

One reason is that judgment can feed our sense of superiority. When we judge others, it feels like we’re upholding righteousness, but in reality, we harm relationships and divide communities. This tendency has serious consequences: studies show that 65% of people who leave the church cite feeling judged or criticized as their primary reason.

Jesus modeled a different way on the cross, where love took on the violence of sin, not by condemning others but by bearing their burdens. As Christians, we’re called to mirror this “violence of love,” a radical willingness to embrace the pain and brokenness of others, leading to restoration, not division.

A return to love, rather than judgment, restores our role as ministers of reconciliation. It’s through humility, compassion, and empathy that we heal the wounds we’ve inflicted, bringing people back to faith and community. We must let go of the appetite for condemnation and instead seek the path of forgiveness, knowing that love is what truly transforms lives.

If we commit to loving radically, following Jesus' example, we’ll witness healing in relationships, communities, and the church itself.

Let's all reflect on how we can choose love over judgment today and every day.

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