Standing Strong in Faith: Guiding Our Children Through Bullying with God’s Grace

In a world where bullying seems more prevalent than ever—not just on playgrounds, but in workplaces and homes—it’s essential to prepare our children, especially those who are believers. It’s unfortunate but true that Christian children may face more challenges because of their faith. This reality isn’t new; it’s something that has persisted through history, reflecting a profound biblical truth.

Jesus Himself was persecuted, and the Apostle Paul reminds us, “Indeed, all who desire to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted” (2 Timothy 3:12). This persecution can come in many forms, from bullying in schools to the disdain some might show towards those who pray openly or speak about God. Our children need to understand that being targeted for their faith is part of walking the path of righteousness. This isn’t just a part of contemporary life but a continuous thread through Christian history.

The Apostle Peter tells us not to be surprised by fiery trials, as if something strange were happening (1 Peter 4:12). It’s a clear indication that persecution for one’s faith is expected, not an anomaly. By teaching this to our children, we affirm that they are not alone; countless believers, young and old, have faced similar trials.

When it comes to responding to such adversity, Jesus’ teachings provide the ultimate guide. He told us to “Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you” (Luke 6:27-28). This response isn’t about passive acceptance but active love and forgiveness. It’s not about retaliation but about showing God’s love, even to those who wish us harm.

We should encourage our children to react not with revenge but with compassion and forgiveness, mirroring Jesus’ response to His persecutors. God’s justice is perfect, and He assures us that vengeance is His, and He will repay (Romans 12:19). Therefore, our focus should be on overcoming evil with good, just as Jesus did on the cross, dying for us while we were still sinners and His enemies (Romans 5:6-10).

In conclusion, when our children face persecution, let them remember it’s often not them but the message of Jesus that provokes hostility. The world may not love us because it did not love Jesus. However, as His followers, we are called to show a different path—one of love, kindness, and forgiveness. This love is powerful, transformative, and a testament to our true discipleship. By loving others as Jesus loves us, we demonstrate that we are His followers, not through our words or debates, but through our actions and heart. This is the message and lesson we must pass on to our children, helping them stand firm in their faith amidst adversity.